灰飞湮灭

there is nothing you can do to keep someone from leaving you or cheating on you or fall out of love with you. All you can do is love yourself,be confident,be happy,be yourself. And when you meet that person,you hope that he sees the confidence and happiness. Only fall in love with him for all these reasons
you cannot control life.you can try,but you'll fail miserably
So we have two options we can try and try to keep our lovers not leaving or we can sit back and enjoy the right.
老头在影片末尾说的话，或许会让人醍醐灌顶。。。